We just learned that the recently wed couple who was tragically trapped inside the stairwell during the fire lived in the apartment right above ours.
It shouldn’t change anything about how one perceives the tragedy but it does. We never met in person but they did write us an extremely nice note when they first moved in to apologize for any possible construction noise. We could sometimes hear their parties, sometimes there was a doggy barking. This is so heartbreaking.
I was thinking yesterday about all the constant fire drills in American schools that teach you literally nothing else than taking the stairs in the event of a fire. Because they make us go through these drills so often since childhood, how can this not become a conditioned response? Moreover, most people learn to perceive these never-ending school fire drills as super annoying and pretty much useless.
How come modern buildings — that have all their tenants’ cell phone numbers — do not have a simple emergency notification system?
The only thing I recalled from the fire safety manual when the whole thing started, was that the building was fireproof. And the 911 operator told me unequivocally to stay inside the apartment and gave some other simple but useful instructions. I feel so sorry and absolutely awful for not having immediately taken these tips onto Twitter and Facebook… That’s the least I could have done.
Another thing is that it is probably much easier to make a decision when you are on your own. I don’t know how differently I might have behaved as part of a couple, had James been here. And people who have children probably have an altogether different decision-making algorithm.
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